ok as it inches closer to christmas i am getting more scared about christmas being a sad one here i am not asking for my self i am asking for my children and i know things are hard everywhere but i am praying for a answer that my children have a smile on their faces christmas day,please can someone help,directions have been given to me for places to look but i still have not found a answer yet is there help out there this year i have 4 kids 3 girls 17 15 and 7 and one boy 16